DADS READ: “Fred Gets Dressed” by Peter Brown

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JER: “Fred Gets Dressed” by Peter Brown reminds me of the poem “On Children” by Khalil Gibran:


>”Your children are not your children.


>They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.


>They come through you but not from you,


>And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.”


The biggest lesson I have learned about parenting is that “my children are not my own”, they are beautiful manifestations of LIFE, and I just happen to have arrived a short time before them. 


As much as I may have tried, I cannot force or compel my children to turn into something that is not authentic to themselves.  I can model good behavior and be there for them when they make discoveries. 


I only hope I will be as supportive and kind as “Fred’s Parents”.

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